There really is no big secret to seducing a woman. When you think about it, it really is a common sense process if you understand the differences between men and women. Sadly, most men can't seem to grasp this concept and it is difficult for them to get into the mind of the opposite sex. Truth be told, the aura of mystery will be shattered once you see it is easier than you think.
The real key and the first thing to understand about the art of seduction is that it's not about the quick win with a witty pick up line. Don't confuse seduction with flirting. Flirting is about initiating contact and the act of inital interest. Seduction is about the long run for relationship success.
The key to seducing a woman is not just getting in tune with a woman's body but more importantly, it is a path that a man must follow in order to completely connect with a woman's mind and soul. This is where understanding the differences between men and women is the foundation. Men, are direct, thinkers, decision makers, and builders. These are traits based upon action. Woman, on the other hand, are feelers, nurturers, and sympathizers. These are emotional traits that one will often associate with motherly love. Traits that are based upon sensing. You must learn these female traits and understand them. Make sure your seduction efforts take these into account.
Communication is most important when seducing a woman. Take your time in getting to know her. Do not take this for granted. Find out what she is really looking for in a relationship. Learn what she likes and what she doesn't like. You can then focus on what she likes and she'll pick up on this quickly. This is important in building your strategy on pleasing her...and that is what seduction is all about.
Patience is a virtue in the art of seduction. Being in a hurry will have the opposite affect and will do you more damage than good. The focus should be on her and not on you. Take the time to learn as much as you can about her (remember the part about communication?). Take things slow and don't rush in. She needs to know that you are not just interested in sex. Taking your time shows you are not desperate and that you value her enough to show this. If all she is interested in is sex, she will let you know. Otherwise, take it slow.
You must make a woman feel special. This is what she wants. In fact, it's what all women want. Romance is not old fashioned and women love it, so be romantic. Romance shows that you care about her, to take the time to know about her and what she likes. It's not always about flowers and candle light dinners (unless that is what you've learned that she likes). Find out what is special to her and incorporate that into your seduction strategy. Trust me, romance carries a lot of weight in seducing a woman.
Seducing a woman is all about these key factors: communication, patience, and romance. One leads to the other. Communication helps you understand her and learn who she really is and what she likes. Patience shows her that you really care about her and are interested in her mind, body and soul. Romance is the "coup de grace" that shows her she is special, that you are putting her before yourself. Women are very tuned into these three factors of seduction, so build upon them for success.